Saturday, March 26, 2011

Swazi Financial update...

So I have had several inquiries from friends and family as to how things are coming with my Swazi trip. I guess I had better do a little up date for inquiring minds...

As my letter stated, it will cost $3,750 and will need to be paid by May 13th to cover land and air costs for my trip June 9th-22nd.

I have had a few donations...this is where I stand as of right now!

Support Chart

Thanks so much to all who have donated, are considering donating, are praying over me and will be helping our family cover gaps while I am gone. This could not be possible without the amazing family of God that surrounds us! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

The internet reunites another family!

Many of you may already know this and some of you may not but many, many years ago, my parents were foster parents. For three and half blessed years, I had a sister, Candy. She was just a year younger than me and for a time we even shared a room.

Many may think that since my parents did not get to adopt her, and she moved to another foster home, that she isn't really family or really my sister. Well that couldn't be farther from the truth. She may not be my flesh and blood, but she is definitely my sister! I love her like a sister. I fought with her like a sister. And over the past several years since we lost touch, I missed her like a sister.

Just this week, she found my dad online. She called him up and he gave her my number. We talked on and off all day and even got to Skype (video call). I got to see her kids and she got to see a couple of my kids. We caught up of the past several years and were back being like sister again! We laughed. We were serious. Our kids laughed. We told old stories and said, "Remember when..." a thousand times!

I am so glad she found me! I have looked for her a thousand times...and after this week, it was just what I needed. So here's to the internet...it may have more information than we want sometimes but right now, I'm glad there was just enough information for my sister to find me.

Here's a few pictures from our childhood.

Christmas at Grandma & Grandpa Harmon's

Christmas at our home with Grandma & Grandpa Glenna

One of our first visits...I still have that doll & her bear.

We got Cabbage Patch Dolls this Christmas. 

Mom always curled our hair...I think it may have traumatized Candy.

The Hilderbrands (my mom's sister's family) came to visit.

Christmas at Grandma & Grandpa Glenna's...and yes Candy was bigger than me (even though I was older) and yes those are matching dresses.

Going to a Luau, three generations in this picture.

Some church family...I think this may have been her Surprise Birthday party.

Us in our ugly old kitchen just before my parents remodeled it.

My birthday dinner one year.

Out for pizza!

Fun with ice cream.

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Day of Family Fun at the Park

Recently, Ryan & I took the family to the park for what we thought was going to be a morning of fun. But alas, as Colorado is, the weather was deceiving and though we thought it to be a "warm" February morning, the wind kick up and made it a bit colder than our wardrobe could handle. Never the less, the kids seemed to have fun and didn't want to leave despite their frozen appendages.

Our baby, looking a lot like the AmStaff in her when she runs.

Cassidy in motion...look at her necklace stick straight out.
Haley peaking through the play set at the park.
So windy that Alex's hair was sticking straight up!
Megan coming down the slide.
Dean climbed under the play set...of course.
Jumping! I love to get jumping pics!

It was fun! I've been wanting to take the kids to the park for some fun and some fun family pics ever since I got my camera in November. Next time we'll go when it's a little warmer.

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Cassidy's Science Project

It's that time of year...Science Fair Projects for 4th grade.

The trouble with a child that lives in two homes is that when it's time for a big project, things have to go back and forth, papers get lost, information is incorrectly passed on and children get confused as do the parents. So this weekend, Ryan and I finally got all the information on Cassidy's science project that is due this week though she has needed to be working on it all month. Cass was in tears because she hadn't done anything, but we were able to stop everything and get it done.

It is in these moments that I thank God that I am able to be a full time mom. I had the availability to get online with Cass and figure out what she wanted to do. Then we went to Walmart to get supplies. We used the three day weekend to experiment and we were able to finish the project Tuesday evening. She was sent to school with all the supplies to complete the presentation board at school. All this without anymore tears and I am proud of how hard she worked.

So here it is:

Better Candle for your money.

Will a white candle or a colored candle burn faster. After some research, she learned how to care for candles. You need to trim the wick to 1/4" before lighting it. A long wick can burn unevenly and smoke. She also learned that you need to protect the flame from the elements by putting it in a glass; she used my hurricane lamps.

Her hypothesis was that the white would burn faster because there were no dyes or chemicals.

She set the timer for an hour, let the candles burn then measured them after one hour. She repeated her test three times with white and three different colors: orange, maroon, and blue. Then the following day she repeated the entire experiment. After burning 12 candles, the results did not match her hypothesis. The colored candles burned faster...not by much but consistently they burned faster. She concluded that the extra chemicals and dyes in a colored candle may create a hotter flame causing them to burn faster. Therefore white candles are the better candle for your money.

Here's some pics of the process:

The Supplies
Candles burning - it took six hours to do all the tests!
After the tests were complete
At the Science Fair
                                     Dad & I got to be judges for 5th grade.                                         We stopped by to see Cassidy after we were done.
So proud of his baby girl. 

She did an amazing job. We are really proud of her. She took 3rd place in her division! Way to go Cassidy! We love you!

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Swazi...here I come.

This year I will be going on the trip to Swaziland, Africa with a group from my church. This will be the 5th and final year our church has committed to short term missions trips to Swazi. Making this decision has been a bit of a roller coaster.

The very first year they went, I did not feel called to go but tried to help others. Each year I have contributed in different ways from helping them take an extra bag of stuff to going to an adult prom. I got my hair cut for a fundraiser and donated an egg casserole for a Swazi breakfast. One year the girls' didn't have gifts at their birthday party but all the guests brought magnadoodles for the schools in Swazi. I have bought little items to support the Go-gos (which mean grandma) and have supported and prayed over others who have gone. Since the very first slide show the church showed us, my heart has been pricked to help this mission.

I knew I was called to go and finally this is my year. In fact, this was a premarital deal. I told Ryan before we got serious that I would be going to Africa in the next couple of years. I needed him to know that this was a calling on my life and that he would be okay with it when it came. He had his concerns then and they are the same now, but he is supporting me completely in amazing ways that words cannot explain.

Over the past several weeks as I approached walking in this decision, there have been several times when it seemed I was not going to be able to go. In fact, Friday afternoon it looked like it wasn't in the cards anymore. Then, by the grace of God, Monday afternoon the doors were opened again. I am going to Swaziland, Africa in June for two weeks.

The planning involved to go is insane. I have grandparents stepping up to help take care of kids while I'm gone (and I feel so blessed to have them). I have so many friends that have already helped just get the beginning things accomplished. Then of course I have kids that are concerned that they are going to go hungry while I'm gone and who is going to feed them, and we can't eat pizza for two weeks and where are we going to go while dad's at work, and...come on kids, like I really didn't have a plan. Take a breath. Then I realize they're freaking out because we have never been apart this long and possibly not even able to talk to me. The longest the girls were ever away from me was this summer, for one week, with their grandparents in FL and they talked to me for 45 minutes every night!

So there have been some hick ups in this process and I'm sure there are some more to come. The kids are worried but excited for me. My parents are helping with kids. My husband is being the most amazing cheer leader ever and is keeping me on track trying to get everything done to go. Now for the hard part...

This trip means there is a lot needed and so I have included the letter that I am sending out to family and friends. I have included it here for those who are in town (trying to save on the postage). I covet your prayers and any support you can give to this cause. Once again, thanks for listening!

Support Letter